It is possible for to you master the art of Parenting with Calm.
There’s no better time than right now to parent with calm. There are lots of things affecting our parenting, lot of things are fighting for our children’s attention. One of the Parenting tools you need to have is observation. Your observation skills need to be top-notch. Through observation, you’ll know your child’s personality, attractions, Passions etc. When you have full knowledge of all this, you’ll be able to guide your child on the right path. For you to be really observant, you need calmness. When a child behaves in an inappropriate manner, you need calm to think through on what method you’ll apply to address or correct that behavior.
No matter what you’ve been told about handling a child’s behavior, it will require you to have calm and emotional control. Without emotional control, you may start to think that what most Parenting Coaches are saying isn’t true. So, the bulk of the work of parenting begins with you. You need to develop the ability of staying calm within you before you can talk about addressing your child’s behavior.
To parent with CALM, you need to have an elevated level of consciousness, you have to spot and address your limiting beliefs, see the pattern in your life and things that are getting in the way of your parenting with calm.
95% of our choices and behaviors in life are driven by our unconscious. So most times, you’re reacting to your child’s behavior based on things that you’ve picked up unconsciously or based on what you’ve experienced in life. This has made most of us resort to spanking our Kids because that’s what we saw while growing up. This becomes an unconscious pattern for how to respond when our children behaves in a way we do not appreciate.
For you to parent with CALM, you need to break the unconscious patterns, elevate your consciousness and adopt a new method of handling such behaviors. So, the first step you should take on your journey to parenting with calm is ELEVATING YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS.
You should begin to reason that when your child behaves in a particular way, you begin to identify things that triggers your reactions. This will help you become aware of it and you’ll be able to adopt a better way how to address it.
This is what consciousness is all about and it constitutes the first step of your journey to parenting with calm.